Sorry, A Few Thoughts, Another Trip to Phoenix

  Sorry I haven’t posted in several weeks, I’ve found that when you don’t do a “Part 2″ a few days after “Part 1″ you forget what the hell “Part 2″ was going to be about! Especially with the way my mind wanders all over the damn place. I’m going to have to go back and read my own posting to try and figure it out.

  I’ve got to get better at posting to my blog, I wish there was a way to show my general Plurks and Tweets that I send out via ping.fm (http://ping.fm). I’m going to have to check that out so that at least you get the general info that I send out. 

  I went to Phoenix again last Thursday on the 4th . I meant to stay for only the one night but as fate would have it I ended up staying until Monday! I had to get the footpads that go to my wheelchair. I had left them at house that I always try to visit when I’m in Phoenix because he is a great guy (We’ll call him B because I’m not going to mention any actual names because I’m not sure how they would feel about being part of this post)and I’m always learning something from him. He doesn’t look his age, let’s just say I hope I’m as active as he is when I’m 70! I was like “No way!” when he told me that. He sometimes has great sex parties, sometime a lot of guys and sometimes not. Lately I’ve seem to be coming on the no guys nights. But B is a great host and always has something even when there is no action. Thursday was quiet, he had been up all night wednesday <wink wink> and needed to get some rest.

  So I was in the other room with D that was staying there a few days. We were checking out the Adam4Adam site when out of the blue I saw a picture of a couple I had been trying to hook up with for over a year! The timing was never right and then their profile was deleted. So I immediately sent them a note asking what was up and how they were doing. Well I ended up going over to their place early Friday morning. Got frisky with the guys (M&C) but a few things came up and cut that short, but I ended up staying until Sunday (Amazing how great stuff can make the days fade away). We talked a lot and I listened a lot (I’m good at listening), I worked on their computer some, trying to get it to run a bit better. They are good, down to earth, no drama guys. I am very glad that I was finally able to hook up with them. Now I hope I have yet another place to visit in my Phoenix travels. 

  I contacted yet another person that I had been after and they said they would be available on Monday to play – Monday, Yikes! But I thought I might be able to swing it as I thought I had someone else lined up for Sunday night. This was also the weekend that I kept forgetting shit at other peoples houses. Like my teeth (that pretty smile comes out and that helps enable me to give great BJ’s),  I realized sometime Friday afternoon that my teeth were soaking back at B’s house in the downstairs bathroom. So I got a ride over to B’s house to get my teeth. Then I get a message on Adam4Adam that I left my footplates in the back of the M&C’s roommates truck (Oh shit, where is my mind?!). So I get a ride from D back over to the other apartment and get the damn footplates. I started to head out to the Sunday visit and I call the guy to chat to make sure everything was still good to go. Well, I should have called sooner as we did chat but come to find out he just wanted to talk to me a few more times before I could come over. Well, Shit!; then someone need to word their email differently because they were coming across all hot and bothered.

  So I turned around and headed back to  M&C’s apartment. I was hoping to just spend the night on the couch, like I did Saturday night. But they had a movie night planned and had a good friend coming over and basically there was no room. So I had to go, no problem, I understand completely! 

  I ended up calling B and asked if I could spend the night. I don’t ever want to come across as a pain for B and I try not to overstay my welcome. I said I’d gladly sleep on the couch. Well later that night D had gone to get these 2 guys. They looked familiar, perhaps from Adam4Adam but I couldn’t place the name’s. Well, I was on the fringe watching them get setup. B came over to me and mentioned that he thought I was going to be on the couch tonight. Ack, we all know what happens when one assumes something, well I assumed it was going to be open play, I was wrong. Here is where I learned another lesson. That not all the guys that come over are there for open play, they might be here only for B or D and that one should always ask before making a fool of one’s self. So I grabbed a porn and headed downstairs. I started watching TrueBlood on HBO, trying to get caught up. Then B came downstairs and said it was ok if I came up. They knew who I was and was ok if I played with them. SWEET! When I got a good look at them I realized that this was yet another couple that I had also been trying to hook up with. If fact I had talk to one or both of them earlier that day. It was fun and enjoyable. I’d love to play with them again some time!

  Now it’s Monday and I’m scanning A4A (Adam4Adam) to make sure this Monday meeting is a go. While figuring out how to get there I get a note saying that something came up and we can’t meet, how about Tuesday. NOPE, SORRY – I’m out of my pills, my clothes smell like something, my beard is scraggly and I have no other place to stay. So I was finally homeward bound: Thank goodness!!

  I had a great time and meet some good guys. The only bad thing is that I spent way more money than I thought I did. I was suppose to see if I could pawn a nice new camera a buddy gave me (Sony DSC-T70). It’s so nice that I’ll be getting that back. I just hate the thought that I have to do that to have some cash for the rest of the month. <Sigh>

Out of Town – Updated 9/18

Sorry – I was out of town this past weekend. I will give some humorous tid-bits tomorrow when I edit and add more info. I would do it tonight but it’s late and I’m bushed. Talk more tomorrow.

 

 It’s now the day after tomorrow. I did a great workout yesterday. I haven’t sweated like that in a long time and it was good. But I came home and 30 mins later I couldn’t keep my eyes open. I fell asleep at the computer. I think it was 1:30 a.m. before I finally made it into bed. So this is why we are posting my weekend adventures late.

  My plan was to go to Phoenix Saturday and visit a older guy and his boyfriend and then on Sunday visit another guy that I have talked to for awhile on Adam4Adam but we never had the chance to meet. I went on line Friday to check and make sure they were still home and that Saturday meeting was going to happen. While online I was chatting to someone that I had talked to before and nothing ever happened. You see, Gilbert is South and East of downtown Phoenix, maybe 30 mins tops via a car. But some people think that is too far to come and get someone, which is fine. So when someone says they are going to come get me and it’s midnight I always think. “I’ll believe it when your ringing my doorbell.” They had said that, well I went to take a shower thinking they will not come. Well they called my bluff. I forgot they didn’t live but maybe 5 minutes from where I lived. So I figured, I’d go over there, have some fun and then they would drop me back off in the morning. I can pack my bags and get all the stuff together that I’ll need for Phoenix and head out on bus. That WAS the plan in my head.

  In the morning it seemed they had found another place to go, so we got dressed and I figured they would drop me off, well I wasn’t really paying attention but it finally dawned on me that we were heading into Phoenix and I was going with them. I didn’t realize that they had included me as being with them when they were talking to whomever. So here I head into Phoenix, unprepared (no rinse out), no hat, no gloves, not enough meds, the one set of clothes on my body, no water, etc. So all day Saturday we were at two great guys that have a house in Phoenix as well as one in California. I was able to call and get ahold of the guys and was dropped off at there house as the two original guys were heading home. Come to find out the guy from California and the guy who hosted Saturday night actually knew each other. The guy Saturday night always seems to get other folks coming over. Sometimes they just show up on there own and sometimes he’ll put out the word. They are some of the finest men that I’ve seen. To be honest, I’m not sure I’d even send them anything online. I just so wish I was better at names and could remember everyone’s name. I hate forgetting names!! I had fun but missed out on a few things because I was unprepared. Sunday I met up with the guy from A4A and he was a great guy that I will want to see again. Especially when I’m not so tired and unprepared. 

  So I learned a valuable lesson, that is to never leave the house unprepared, whether it is just a local over night trip or an all weekend trip, to always have all my stuff with me. So that if in the future an overnight trip because an all weekend trip. I won’t be caught with my pants down, so to speak. But even unprepared it was a blast and I was the Pig I usually am! 

  I’m hoping I get out a new posting tomorrow. Good night!